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Ways to Get Oh-So-Sweet Revenge On Your Cheating Boyfriend

November 21, 2019 by Maya

If you suspect that your boyfriend is cheating, planning the perfect revenge can be tempting. However, if your plan goes wrong, getting back at your boyfriend can end up hurting you even more in the long term. Here’s how to plan oh-so-sweet revenge on your cheating boyfriend that doesn’t involve crying or self-pity.

Make Sure He’s Actually Cheating

If your boyfriend has been acting suspiciously, start by gathering solid evidence that he’s cheating. Without proof that your boyfriend is cheating, you could end up hurting yourself or ruining your relationship in seeking revenge. Although it’s normal to feel angry at your boyfriend for acting differently, take a step back to assess the situation. Consider using a cheater phone gps or checking his call history to figure out if he’s cheating.

Cut Him Off

According to couples therapist Dr. Gary Brown, cutting off communication with a cheating boyfriend can help you heal. “Make a clear intention to not see your ex for a minimum of 90 days,” as “doing this will send them the message that this is really over.” Additionally, unfollow your ex on social media to keep a safe distance.

Cutting ties with your cheating boyfriend will also make him feel powerless and alone. After you find out he’s cheating, break up with him and don’t give in when he comes begging to get back together. Ignore his calls or texts, and don’t entertain his efforts to win back your attention. Giving him the cold shoulder is the ultimate revenge, as it’ll leave him feeling guilty for what he’s done.

Take a Vacation

Vacationing with some friends can provide the perfect opportunity to heal and clear your mind. Plan a vacation to Hawaii to hang out by the beach, de-stress, and disconnect from your daily routine. Attend a luau in Maui or take up surfing lessons and make sure to post vacation pictures on Instagram so your ex can see how much fun you’re having without them. Vacationing with your loved ones will show your ex that you don’t need them to be happy.

Become Friends With the “Other Woman”

One of the best ways to exact revenge on a cheating boyfriend is to meet up with the girl (or girls) he’s cheated on you with. If the girl he’s cheated with is decent, she’ll at least agree to meet with you and talk about what happened between her and your ex. Meeting the other woman can give you closure and might even turn into a long-lasting friendship.

Boyfriends enjoy cheating because they get to pursue a secret affair with another woman, so befriending her and bringing her out into the open will make your boyfriend regret his decision to cheat.

Gain Support from His Family

If you and your ex dated for a while, you’re probably close to his family. Broadcasting his infidelity to his family and friends can win over their support and make him feel even worse about what he did. Try reaching out to his mom and giving her your sob story (exaggerating a few minor details wouldn’t hurt!). As a woman, she’s more likely to side with you than with him.

If you’re not sure how to reach out, start shipping his belongings back to his parents’ house. When they call to ask “Why?” be sure to tell them everything he did wrong in the relationship. Top off your laundry list with cheating to gain their support.

Although revenge isn’t always the answer to relationship problems, exacting sweet revenge on a cheating boyfriend can help you jumpstart the healing process and make him realize how much he’s hurt you.

 

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